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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">9. **\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236**\uff1a\u970d\u59ae\u63d0\u51fa\uff0c\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u4eba\u683c\u4f7f\u7528\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u7684\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\u6765\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5728\u7684\u51b2\u7a81\u548c\u7126\u8651\uff0c\u5982\u5426\u8ba4\u3001\u6295\u5c04\u548c\u5408\u7406\u5316\u7b49\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\u867d\u7136\u6682\u65f6\u7f13\u89e3\u4e86\u7126\u8651\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u59a8\u788d\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u53d1\u5c55\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10. 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u57fa\u672c\u7126\u8651\u4f5c\u4e3a\u970d\u59ae\u7406\u8bba\u4e2d\u7684\u6838\u5fc3\u6982\u5ff5\uff0c\u63ed\u793a\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u5728\u65e9\u671f\u53d1\u5c55\u4e2d\u6240\u7ecf\u5386\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u521b\u4f24\u5982\u4f55\u5f71\u54cd\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u4e00\u751f\u3002\u901a\u8fc7\u7406\u89e3\u548c\u5e94\u5bf9\u57fa\u672c\u7126\u8651\uff0c\u4e2a\u4f53\u53ef\u4ee5\u9010\u6b65\u6446\u8131\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u4eba\u683c\u7684\u675f\u7f1a\uff0c\u671d\u5411\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u65b9\u5411\u53d1\u5c55\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5361\u4f26\u00b7\u970d\u59ae\uff08Karen Horney\uff09\u63d0\u51fa\u7684\u201c\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u201d\u6982\u5ff5\uff0c\u662f\u5979\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u4eba\u683c\u7406\u8bba\u4e2d\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u6838\u5fc3\u90e8\u5206\u3002\u970d\u59ae\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u4e2a\u4f53\u5728\u9762\u5bf9\u57fa\u672c\u7126\u8651\u65f6\uff0c\u4f1a\u53d1\u5c55\u51fa\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u7684\u9700\u6c42\u6216\u9a71\u529b\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9700\u6c42\u5f80\u5f80\u662f\u6781\u7aef\u7684\u3001\u4e0d\u5207\u5b9e\u9645\u7684\uff0c\u5e76\u4e14\u662f\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u7684\u9632\u5fa1\u6027\u7b56\u7565\u3002\u5979\u8bc6\u522b\u51fa\u4e86\u5341\u79cd\u4e3b\u8981\u7684\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9700\u6c42\u53ef\u4ee5\u5f52\u7eb3\u4e3a\u4e09\u5927\u7c7b\uff1a\u8d8b\u5411\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08moving toward people\uff09\u3001\u5bf9\u6297\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08moving against people\uff09\u548c\u8fdc\u79bb\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08moving away from people\uff09\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u5bf9\u8fd9\u5341\u79cd\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u7684\u8be6\u7ec6\u89e3\u91ca\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 1. **\u8d8b\u5411\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08Moving Toward People\uff09**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u7c7b\u9700\u6c42\u53cd\u6620\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u901a\u8fc7\u4f9d\u8d56\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u83b7\u5f97\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u7684\u503e\u5411\u3002\u4e2a\u4f53\u8bd5\u56fe\u901a\u8fc7\u53d6\u60a6\u3001\u987a\u4ece\u6216\u4f9d\u8d56\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u51cf\u5c11\u5185\u5728\u7684\u7126\u8651\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 1.1 **\u5bf9\u7231\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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**\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u6e34\u671b\u88ab\u8ba4\u53ef\u548c\u63a5\u7eb3\uff0c\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u6279\u8bc4\u6216\u62d2\u7edd\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u52aa\u529b\u4e89\u53d6\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u597d\u8bc4\uff0c\u751a\u81f3\u538b\u6291\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u771f\u5b9e\u611f\u53d7\u6765\u9002\u5e94\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u671f\u671b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u6781\u5ea6\u5728\u610f\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u8bc4\u4ef7\u3001\u5bb3\u6015\u88ab\u6392\u65a5\u6216\u5ffd\u89c6\u3001\u8fc7\u5ea6\u8ffd\u6c42\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u8d5e\u8d4f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 1.3 **\u5bf9\u6709\u5f71\u54cd\u529b\u7684\u4f19\u4f34\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u4e00\u7c7b\u9700\u6c42\u53cd\u6620\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u901a\u8fc7\u63a7\u5236\u6216\u652f\u914d\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u5e94\u5bf9\u7126\u8651\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u7684\u503e\u5411\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u8bd5\u56fe\u901a\u8fc7\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u529b\u91cf\u548c\u72ec\u7acb\u6765\u63a9\u76d6\u5185\u5728\u7684\u8106\u5f31\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 2.1 **\u5bf9\u6743\u529b\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u6e34\u671b\u638c\u63a7\u5c40\u52bf\u5e76\u4e3b\u5bb0\u4ed6\u4eba\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u76f8\u4fe1\u53ea\u6709\u638c\u63e1\u6743\u529b\u624d\u80fd\u4fdd\u62a4\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u53d7\u4f24\u5bb3\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u88ab\u4ed6\u4eba\u63a7\u5236\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u559c\u6b22\u63a7\u5236\u4ed6\u4eba\u3001\u5728\u793e\u4ea4\u4e2d\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u652f\u914d\u6027\u884c\u4e3a\u3001\u5bf9\u6743\u529b\u548c\u6743\u5a01\u7684\u5f3a\u70c8\u6e34\u671b\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 2.2 **\u5bf9\u5265\u524a\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4ed6\u4eba\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u88ab\u5229\u7528\u7684\u5de5\u5177\uff0c\u901a\u8fc7\u5265\u524a\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u5b9e\u73b0\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u76ee\u6807\uff0c\u51cf\u5c11\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u5229\u7528\u4ed6\u4eba\u6765\u8fbe\u5230\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u76ee\u7684\u3001\u5bf9\u4ed6\u4eba\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u5229\u7528\u548c\u64cd\u7eb5\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 2.3 **\u5bf9\u8363\u8a89\u548c\u793e\u4f1a\u5730\u4f4d\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u8ffd\u6c42\u793e\u4f1a\u5730\u4f4d\u548c\u8363\u8a89\uff0c\u8ba4\u4e3a\u62e5\u6709\u8fd9\u4e9b\u5916\u5728\u6807\u5fd7\u53ef\u4ee5\u8bc1\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4ef7\u503c\uff0c\u63a9\u76d6\u5185\u5728\u7684\u81ea\u5351\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u6781\u5ea6\u5173\u6ce8\u793e\u4f1a\u5730\u4f4d\u548c\u8363\u8a89\uff0c\u6e34\u671b\u88ab\u4ed6\u4eba\u89c6\u4e3a\u6210\u529f\u8005\uff0c\u5e38\u5e38\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eba\u7ade\u4e89\u4ee5\u8bc1\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 3. **\u8fdc\u79bb\u4ed6\u4eba\uff08Moving Away from People\uff09**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u7c7b\u9700\u6c42\u53cd\u6620\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u901a\u8fc7\u56de\u907f\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eba\u7684\u63a5\u89e6\u548c\u60c5\u611f\u6295\u5165\u6765\u4fdd\u62a4\u81ea\u5df1\u4e0d\u53d7\u4f24\u5bb3\u7684\u503e\u5411\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u5f80\u5f80\u901a\u8fc7\u758f\u8fdc\u548c\u72ec\u7acb\u6765\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u7126\u8651\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 3.1 **\u5bf9\u72ec\u7acb\u548c\u81ea\u4e3b\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u6e34\u671b\u5b8c\u5168\u7684\u72ec\u7acb\u548c\u81ea\u4e3b\uff0c\u907f\u514d\u4efb\u4f55\u5f62\u5f0f\u7684\u4f9d\u8d56\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u8ba4\u4e3a\u4f9d\u8d56\u4ed6\u4eba\u4f1a\u5e26\u6765\u75db\u82e6\u548c\u5931\u671b\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u62d2\u7edd\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eba\u5efa\u7acb\u6df1\u539a\u7684\u8054\u7cfb\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u6781\u5ea6\u8ffd\u6c42\u72ec\u7acb\u3001\u81ea\u4e3b\uff0c\u4e0d\u613f\u4e0e\u4ed6\u4eba\u5efa\u7acb\u4f9d\u8d56\u5173\u7cfb\uff0c\u503e\u5411\u4e8e\u5b64\u7acb\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 3.2 **\u5bf9\u5b8c\u7f8e\u548c\u65e0\u61c8\u53ef\u51fb\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u8ffd\u6c42\u5b8c\u7f8e\uff0c\u8ba4\u4e3a\u53ea\u6709\u8fbe\u5230\u65e0\u61c8\u53ef\u51fb\u7684\u72b6\u6001\uff0c\u624d\u80fd\u907f\u514d\u6279\u8bc4\u548c\u5931\u8d25\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u8bbe\u5b9a\u4e86\u6781\u9ad8\u7684\u6807\u51c6\uff0c\u4ee5\u6b64\u6765\u63a9\u76d6\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u7126\u8651\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u5bf9\u81ea\u5df1\u8981\u6c42\u8fc7\u9ad8\u3001\u5bb3\u6015\u72af\u9519\u3001\u5bf9\u7ec6\u8282\u548c\u6210\u5c31\u6709\u6781\u5ea6\u82db\u6c42\u7684\u6001\u5ea6\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">#### 3.3 **\u5bf9\u9650\u5236\u751f\u6d3b\u8303\u56f4\u7684\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u63cf\u8ff0**\uff1a\u4e2a\u4f53\u901a\u8fc7\u7f29\u5c0f\u751f\u6d3b\u8303\u56f4\u3001\u51cf\u5c11\u793e\u4f1a\u63a5\u89e6\u6765\u907f\u514d\u53ef\u80fd\u5f15\u53d1\u7126\u8651\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u3002\u4ed6\u4eec\u8bd5\u56fe\u901a\u8fc7\u56de\u907f\u548c\u81ea\u6211\u9650\u5236\u6765\u611f\u5230\u5b89\u5168\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u8868\u73b0**\uff1a\u907f\u514d\u793e\u4ea4\u6d3b\u52a8\u3001\u62d2\u7edd\u627f\u62c5\u8d23\u4efb\u3001\u7f29\u5c0f\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u5708\uff0c\u4ee5\u51cf\u5c11\u538b\u529b\u548c\u7126\u8651\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 4. **\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u7684\u5f71\u54cd**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u970d\u59ae\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u867d\u7136\u5728\u77ed\u671f\u5185\u5e2e\u52a9\u4e2a\u4f53\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5fc3\u7684\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\uff0c\u4f46\u4ece\u957f\u8fdc\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u5b83\u4eec\u4f1a\u52a0\u6df1\u4e2a\u4f53\u7684\u5185\u5fc3\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c\u5bfc\u81f4\u66f4\u591a\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u901a\u5e38\u662f\u6781\u7aef\u548c\u50f5\u5316\u7684\uff0c\u96be\u4ee5\u901a\u8fc7\u6b63\u5e38\u7684\u793e\u4f1a\u4e92\u52a8\u5f97\u5230\u6ee1\u8db3\u3002\u8fd9\u79cd\u4e0d\u73b0\u5b9e\u7684\u9700\u6c42\u4f7f\u4e2a\u4f53\u4e0d\u65ad\u5904\u4e8e\u632b\u8d25\u548c\u7126\u8651\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u8fdb\u4e00\u6b65\u52a0\u5267\u4e86\u5185\u5728\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 5. **\u5e94\u5bf9\u548c\u6cbb\u7597\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u970d\u59ae\u5efa\u8bae\uff0c\u6cbb\u7597\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u7684\u5173\u952e\u5728\u4e8e\u5e2e\u52a9\u4e2a\u4f53\u610f\u8bc6\u5230\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9700\u6c42\u7684\u5b58\u5728\u53ca\u5176\u80cc\u540e\u7684\u539f\u56e0\u3002\u901a\u8fc7\u5fc3\u7406\u6cbb\u7597\u548c\u81ea\u6211\u53cd\u601d\uff0c\u4e2a\u4f53\u53ef\u4ee5\u9010\u6e10\u51cf\u5c11\u5bf9\u8fd9\u4e9b\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u9700\u6c42\u7684\u4f9d\u8d56\uff0c\u53d1\u5c55\u51fa\u66f4\u4e3a\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u5e94\u5bf9\u7b56\u7565\uff0c\u5982\u63a5\u7eb3\u771f\u5b9e\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u3001\u5efa\u7acb\u771f\u5b9e\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u8fde\u63a5\u3001\u5e76\u53d1\u5c55\u66f4\u4e3a\u7075\u6d3b\u548c\u73b0\u5b9e\u7684\u9700\u6c42\u6a21\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u603b\u7684\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u970d\u59ae\u7684\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u7406\u8bba\u63ed\u793a\u4e86\u4e2a\u4f53\u5982\u4f55\u5728\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u548c\u793e\u4f1a\u538b\u529b\u65f6\uff0c\u53d1\u5c55\u51fa\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u4e0d\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u548c\u601d\u7ef4\u6a21\u5f0f\u3002\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9700\u6c42\u867d\u7136\u5728\u77ed\u671f\u5185\u63d0\u4f9b\u4e86\u4e00\u4e9b\u5fc3\u7406\u4e0a\u7684\u7f13\u89e3\uff0c\u4f46\u4ece\u957f\u8fdc\u6765\u770b\uff0c\u5b83\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5bfc\u81f4\u66f4\u4e25\u91cd\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u901a\u8fc7\u8ba4\u8bc6\u548c\u8c03\u6574\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9700\u6c42\uff0c\u4e2a\u4f53\u53ef\u4ee5\u671d\u5411\u66f4\u52a0\u5065\u5eb7\u548c\u5e73\u8861\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u72b6\u6001\u53d1\u5c55\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u81ea\u6211\u7406\u60f3\u5316\uff08Idealized Self-Image\uff09\u662f\u5361\u4f26\u00b7\u970d\u59ae\uff08Karen Horney\uff09\u63d0\u51fa\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u91cd\u8981\u6982\u5ff5\uff0c\u7528\u6765\u63cf\u8ff0\u4e2a\u4f53\u4e3a\u4e86\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u3001\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u548c\u57fa\u672c\u7126\u8651\uff0c\u800c\u521b\u9020\u51fa\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u7406\u60f3\u5316\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u5f62\u8c61\u3002\u8fd9\u4e2a\u7406\u60f3\u5316\u7684\u81ea\u6211\u5f62\u8c61\u662f\u4e2a\u4f53\u5728\u65e0\u610f\u8bc6\u4e2d\u6784\u5efa\u7684\u4e00\u4e2a\u5b8c\u7f8e\u7248\u672c\uff0c\u8fdc\u8fdc\u8131\u79bb\u4e86\u4ed6\u4eec\u7684\u771f\u5b9e\u81ea\u6211\u3002\u970d\u59ae\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u81ea\u6211\u7406\u60f3\u5316\u662f\u8bb8\u591a\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u4eba\u683c\u5f62\u6210\u7684\u6838\u5fc3\u673a\u5236\u4e4b\u4e00\uff0c\u5b83\u65e2\u662f\u4e2a\u4f53\u5e94\u5bf9\u7126\u8651\u7684\u9632\u5fa1\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u5bfc\u81f4\u66f4\u6df1\u5c42\u6b21\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u7684\u6839\u6e90\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 1. 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 4. **\u81ea\u6211\u758f\u79bb\u7684\u5f71\u54cd**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u95ee\u9898**\uff1a\u81ea\u6211\u758f\u79bb\u53ef\u80fd\u5bfc\u81f4\u4e00\u7cfb\u5217\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u95ee\u9898\uff0c\u5305\u62ec\u6291\u90c1\u3001\u7126\u8651\u548c\u4f4e\u81ea\u5c0a\u3002\u4e2a\u4f53\u5728\u957f\u671f\u758f\u79bb\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60c5\u51b5\u4e0b\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u9677\u5165\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u548c\u81ea\u6211\u5426\u5b9a\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u611f\u5230\u96be\u4ee5\u5904\u7406\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u548c\u751f\u6d3b\u6311\u6218\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 6. **\u81ea\u6211\u758f\u79bb\u7684\u73b0\u4ee3\u5e94\u7528**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u5728\u4e2a\u4eba\u6210\u957f\u4e2d\u7684\u4f5c\u7528**\uff1a\u5728\u73b0\u4ee3\u4e2a\u4eba\u6210\u957f\u9886\u57df\uff0c\u81ea\u6211\u758f\u79bb\u7684\u6982\u5ff5\u88ab\u7528\u6765\u5e2e\u52a9\u4eba\u4eec\u7406\u89e3\u4ed6\u4eec\u4e3a\u4f55\u611f\u5230\u4e0e\u81ea\u5df1\u5931\u53bb\u8054\u7cfb\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5982\u4f55\u901a\u8fc7\u81ea\u6211\u63a2\u7d22\u548c\u63a5\u7eb3\u6765\u91cd\u65b0\u5efa\u7acb\u8fd9\u79cd\u8054\u7cfb\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5361\u4f26\u00b7\u970d\u59ae\uff08Karen Horney\uff09\u5728\u5979\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b66\u7406\u8bba\u4e2d\u8ba8\u8bba\u4e86\u591a\u79cd\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e9b\u673a\u5236\u662f\u4e2a\u4f53\u4e3a\u4e86\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5fc3\u51b2\u7a81\u3001\u7126\u8651\u548c\u4e0d\u5b89\u5168\u611f\u800c\u53d1\u5c55\u51fa\u6765\u7684\u65e0\u610f\u8bc6\u5fc3\u7406\u7b56\u7565\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u970d\u59ae\u63d0\u5230\u7684\u4e00\u4e9b\u5173\u952e\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\u53ca\u5176\u89e3\u91ca\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 1. **\u5426\u8ba4\uff08Denial\uff09**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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Formation\uff09**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u5b9a\u4e49**\uff1a\u53cd\u5411\u5f62\u6210\u662f\u6307\u4e2a\u4f53\u65e0\u610f\u8bc6\u5730\u91c7\u53d6\u4e0e\u81ea\u5df1\u771f\u5b9e\u611f\u53d7\u6216\u51b2\u52a8\u5b8c\u5168\u76f8\u53cd\u7684\u884c\u4e3a\u6216\u6001\u5ea6\uff0c\u4ee5\u63a9\u76d6\u6216\u538b\u6291\u8fd9\u4e9b\u611f\u53d7\u6216\u51b2\u52a8\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; **\u4f8b\u5b50**\uff1a\u4e00\u4e2a\u5185\u5fc3\u611f\u5230\u6124\u6012\u7684\u4eba\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u8868\u73b0\u51fa\u6781\u5ea6\u7684\u53cb\u5584\u548c\u6e29\u548c\uff0c\u4ee5\u63a9\u76d6\u4ed6\u771f\u5b9e\u7684\u654c\u610f\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 5. **\u538b\u6291\uff08Repression\uff09**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\u662f\u4e2a\u4f53\u5e94\u5bf9\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\u548c\u5916\u90e8\u538b\u529b\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\uff0c\u5c3d\u7ba1\u5b83\u4eec\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u77ed\u671f\u5185\u7f13\u89e3\u7126\u8651\uff0c\u4f46\u5982\u679c\u8fc7\u5ea6\u4f9d\u8d56\u8fd9\u4e9b\u673a\u5236\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u4f1a\u5bfc\u81f4\u66f4\u6df1\u5c42\u6b21\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u95ee\u9898\u3002\u970d\u59ae\u8ba4\u4e3a\uff0c\u8ba4\u8bc6\u5230\u8fd9\u4e9b\u9632\u5fa1\u673a\u5236\u7684\u5b58\u5728\u5e76\u52aa\u529b\u51cf\u5c11\u5bf9\u5b83\u4eec\u7684\u4f9d\u8d56\uff0c\u662f\u8d70\u5411\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u91cd\u8981\u4e00\u6b65\u3002<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u5361\u4f26\u00b7\u970d\u59ae\u5728\u63a2\u8ba8\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u4eba\u683c\u7684\u6cbb\u7597\u548c\u81ea\u6211\u6210\u957f\u65f6\uff0c\u63d0\u51fa\u4e86\u4e00\u4e9b\u5177\u4f53\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff0c\u65e8\u5728\u5e2e\u52a9\u4e2a\u4f53\u6446\u8131\u795e\u7ecf\u75c7\u9700\u6c42\u548c\u5185\u5728\u51b2\u7a81\uff0c\u671d\u5411\u5fc3\u7406\u5065\u5eb7\u7684\u53d1\u5c55\u3002\u4ee5\u4e0b\u662f\u5979\u7684\u4e3b\u8981\u5efa\u8bae\u548c\u65b9\u6cd5\uff1a<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">### 1. **\u81ea\u6211\u8ba4\u8bc6\u4e0e\u81ea\u6211\u89c9\u5bdf**<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8211; 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