{"id":17342,"date":"2026-08-13T23:27:55","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T13:27:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/geoffreychen.com\/when-australians-tease-you-is-it-affection-or-disrespect\/"},"modified":"2026-08-13T23:27:55","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T13:27:55","slug":"when-australians-tease-you-is-it-affection-or-disrespect","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/geoffreychen.com\/zh\/when-australians-tease-you-is-it-affection-or-disrespect\/","title":{"rendered":"\u6fb3\u6d32\u4eba\u62ff\u4f60\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u662f\u559c\u6b22\u4f60\u8fd8\u662f\u4e0d\u5c0a\u91cd\u4f60\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<p><em>\u300a\u6fb3\u6d32\u4eba\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u8fd9\u6837\u8bf4\uff1f\u300b\u00b7 \u7b2c\u4e00\u5b63\u201c\u542c\u61c2\u5b57\u9762\u4ee5\u5916\u7684\u6fb3\u6d32\u82f1\u8bed\u201d\u00b7 \u7b2c 9 \u7bc7<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\u4f60\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u548c\u4e00\u7fa4\u540c\u4e8b\u5403\u5348\u996d\uff0c\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u70b9\u4e86\u5168\u684c\u6700\u7cbe\u81f4\u7684\u4e00\u4efd\u9910\u3002\u6709\u4eba\u770b\u7740\u4f60\u7684\u76d8\u5b50\u8bf4\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><code>Very fancy. Didn\u2019t know we had royalty joining us.<\/code><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u5176\u4ed6\u4eba\u7b11\u4e86\u3002\u4f60\u4e5f\u7b11\u4e86\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u4f46\u5fc3\u91cc\u5f00\u59cb\u8ba1\u7b97\uff1a\u4ed6\u4eec\u662f\u5728\u63a5\u7eb3\u6211\uff0c\u8fd8\u662f\u89c9\u5f97\u6211\u88c5\u6a21\u4f5c\u6837\uff1f<\/p>\n<p>\u6fb3\u6d32\u65e5\u5e38\u4ea4\u5f80\u4e2d\uff0cteasing\u3001banter\u3001taking the mickey \u4ee5\u53ca\u5404\u79cd\u770b\u4f3c\u4e0d\u592a\u5ba2\u6c14\u7684\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u786e\u5b9e\u53ef\u80fd\u7528\u6765\u8868\u793a\u4eb2\u8fd1\u3002\u670b\u53cb\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5bf9\u4f60\u8bf4\u4e00\u4e32\u6b63\u5f0f\u8d5e\u7f8e\uff0c\u53cd\u800c\u6293\u4f4f\u4e00\u4e2a\u5c0f\u7279\u70b9\u8c03\u4f83\u4e24\u53e5\u3002\u95ee\u9898\u662f\uff0c\u201c\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\u8868\u793a\u559c\u6b22\u201d\u53ea\u8bf4\u4e86\u534a\u4e2a\u4e8b\u5b9e\u3002\u73a9\u7b11\u4e5f\u53ef\u80fd\u6392\u65a5\u3001\u7f9e\u8fb1\u6216\u5229\u7528\u6743\u529b\u5dee\u5f02\uff0c\u800c\u4e00\u53e5 <code>just joking<\/code> \u4e0d\u4f1a\u81ea\u52a8\u6539\u53d8\u5b83\u9020\u6210\u7684\u6548\u679c\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u5047\u88c5\u5192\u72af\uff0c\u5b8c\u6210\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4eb2\u8fd1<\/h2>\n<p>\u8bed\u8a00\u5b66\u5bb6 Michael Haugh \u628a\u4e00\u79cd\u5e38\u89c1\u505a\u6cd5\u79f0\u4e3a jocular mockery\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u7c97\u7565\u7406\u89e3\u4e3a\u201c\u73a9\u7b11\u5f0f\u5632\u5f04\u201d\u3002\u8bf4\u8bdd\u8005\u8868\u9762\u4e0a\u8d2c\u4f4e\u67d0\u4e2a\u4eba\uff0c\u53cc\u65b9\u5374\u628a\u5b83\u653e\u5728\u4e00\u4e2a\u975e\u4e25\u8083\u6846\u67b6\u91cc\u5171\u540c\u5b8c\u6210\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u4f8b\u5982\u670b\u53cb\u770b\u5230\u4f60\u8fdf\u5230\u4e24\u5206\u949f\uff0c\u8bf4\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><code>Good of you to finally turn up.<\/code><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4ed6\u7b11\u7740\u8bf4\uff0c\u4f60\u7acb\u5373\u56de\u4e00\u53e5 <code>Had to make an entrance<\/code>\uff0c\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u77e5\u9053\u8fd9\u4e0d\u662f\u6b63\u5f0f\u7eaa\u5f8b\u5904\u5206\u3002\u5c0f\u5c0f\u7684\u201c\u653b\u51fb\u201d\u53cd\u800c\u786e\u8ba4\u4e86\u53cc\u65b9\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u65f6\u65f6\u4fdd\u6301\u5ba2\u5957\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u6210\u529f\u7684\u73a9\u7b11\u4e0d\u662f\u8bf4\u8bdd\u8005\u5355\u65b9\u9762\u5ba3\u5e03\u7684<\/h2>\n<p>\u4e00\u4e2a\u73a9\u7b11\u80fd\u5426\u6210\u4e3a\u4eb2\u8fd1\uff0c\u4e0d\u7531\u53d1\u8d77\u8005\u72ec\u81ea\u51b3\u5b9a\u3002\u542c\u8005\u7684\u53cd\u5e94\u4f1a\u4e0d\u65ad\u6539\u53d8\u5b83\u7684\u610f\u4e49\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6210\u529f\u7684\u4e92\u52a8\u91cc\uff0c\u76ee\u6807\u4eba\u7269\u7ecf\u5e38\u6709\u53c2\u4e0e\u7a7a\u95f4\u3002\u4ed6\u53ef\u4ee5\u7b11\u3001\u5938\u5f20\u5730\u63a5\u53d7\u89d2\u8272\u3001\u81ea\u5632\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u7acb\u523b\u56de\u656c\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><code>Nice shirt, mate. Lose a bet?<\/code><br \/><code>Still better than yours.<\/code><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u8fd9\u91cc\u7684\u4e92\u76f8\u56de\u51fb\u8ba9\u5173\u7cfb\u76f8\u5bf9\u5e73\u8861\u3002\u53cc\u65b9\u90fd\u77e5\u9053\u89c4\u5219\uff0c\u4e5f\u90fd\u6709\u80fd\u529b\u7ed3\u675f\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u201c\u4f1a\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\u201d\u4e5f\u9700\u8981\u5171\u540c\u5386\u53f2<\/h2>\n<p>\u540c\u4e00\u53e5\u8bdd\u7531\u8001\u670b\u53cb\u548c\u65b0\u540c\u4e8b\u8bf4\u51fa\uff0c\u98ce\u9669\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u591a\u5e74\u670b\u53cb\u77e5\u9053\u5f7c\u6b64\u54ea\u4e9b\u7ecf\u5386\u53ef\u4ee5\u78b0\u3001\u54ea\u4e9b\u4e0d\u80fd\u78b0\uff0c\u4e5f\u79ef\u7d2f\u4e86\u4e92\u76f8\u652f\u6301\u7684\u8bb0\u5f55\u3002\u4e00\u53e5\u5173\u4e8e\u5fd8\u5e26\u94a5\u5319\u7684\u8c03\u4f83\uff0c\u653e\u5728\u8fd9\u4e2a\u5386\u53f2\u91cc\u53ef\u80fd\u5f88\u8f7b\u3002\u521a\u8ba4\u8bc6\u7684\u4eba\u6ca1\u6709\u8fd9\u79cd\u4fe1\u7528\uff0c\u76f4\u63a5\u62ff\u53e3\u97f3\u3001\u8eab\u4f53\u3001\u5bb6\u5ead\u6216\u80fd\u529b\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u8d8a\u754c\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u6fb3\u6d32\u6587\u5316\u4e2d\u201c\u4e0d\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u592a\u5f53\u56de\u4e8b\u201d\u7684\u7406\u60f3\uff0c\u5e38\u8ba9\u81ea\u5632\u548c\u4e92\u76f8\u62c6\u53f0\u663e\u5f97\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002\u5b83\u80fd\u963b\u6b62\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u6446\u51fa\u8fc7\u9ad8\u5730\u4f4d\uff0c\u4e5f\u8ba9\u7fa4\u4f53\u51cf\u5c11\u6b63\u5f0f\u8ddd\u79bb\u3002\u4f46\u8981\u6c42\u522b\u4eba\u8bc1\u660e\u81ea\u5df1\u201c\u4e0d\u4ecb\u610f\u201d\uff0c\u4f1a\u628a\u540c\u4e00\u4e2a\u7406\u60f3\u53d8\u6210\u538b\u529b\u3002\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u67d0\u7c7b\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u4e0d\u8868\u793a\u7f3a\u4e4f\u5e7d\u9ed8\u611f\uff0c\u66f4\u4e0d\u8868\u793a\u4ed6\u62d2\u7edd\u878d\u5165\u6fb3\u6d32\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u5148\u770b\u4e92\u52a8\u662f\u5426\u4e92\u60e0<\/h2>\n<p>\u6ca1\u6709\u4e07\u80fd\u6e05\u5355\uff0c\u4f46\u4e92\u60e0\u662f\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u7ebf\u7d22\u4e4b\u4e00\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u9996\u5148\u662f\u4e92\u60e0\u3002\u662f\u4e0d\u662f\u53ea\u6709\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u957f\u671f\u6210\u4e3a\u76ee\u6807\uff1f\u5982\u679c\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u80fd\u53d1\u8d77\u548c\u56de\u5e94\uff0c\u73a9\u7b11\u66f4\u53ef\u80fd\u5c5e\u4e8e\u5171\u540c\u6e38\u620f\u3002\u82e5\u6743\u529b\u6700\u9ad8\u7684\u4eba\u968f\u610f\u8c03\u4f83\u522b\u4eba\uff0c\u5374\u4e0d\u80fd\u63a5\u53d7\u4efb\u4f55\u56de\u656c\uff0c\u201c\u5927\u5bb6\u90fd\u8fd9\u6837\u201d\u5c31\u6ca1\u6709\u8bf4\u670d\u529b\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u542c\u4e0d\u61c2\u65f6\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u600e\u6837\u56de\u5e94<\/h2>\n<p>\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u6000\u7591\u5bf9\u65b9\u5728\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u5374\u6ca1\u542c\u61c2\uff0c\u4e0d\u5fc5\u5f3a\u8feb\u81ea\u5df1\u7b11\u3002\u53ef\u4ee5\u8f7b\u677e\u786e\u8ba4\uff1a<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p><code>Are you having me on?<\/code><br \/><code>I can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re joking.<\/code><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u7b2c\u4e00\u53e5\u5f88\u6fb3\u6d32\uff0c\u610f\u601d\u63a5\u8fd1\u201c\u4f60\u5728\u9017\u6211\u5427\uff1f\u201d\u7b2c\u4e8c\u53e5\u66f4\u76f4\u63a5\uff0c\u4e5f\u5b8c\u5168\u6b63\u5e38\u3002<\/p>\n<h2>\u81ea\u5df1\u5f00\u73a9\u7b11\u65f6\uff0c\u522b\u7528\u201c\u6fb3\u6d32\u6587\u5316\u201d\u4f5c\u8bb8\u53ef\u8bc1<\/h2>\n<p>\u65b0\u6765\u8005\u6709\u65f6\u542c\u8bf4 banter 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<code>mate<\/code>\u3001\u7b11\u58f0\u6216 <code>just joking<\/code> \u81ea\u52a8\u533a\u5206\u3002<\/p>\n<p>\u800c\u4e14\uff0c\u5173\u7cfb\u4f1a\u53d8\u5316\u3002\u6628\u5929\u53cc\u65b9\u63a5\u53d7\u7684\u73a9\u7b11\uff0c\u4eca\u5929\u672a\u5fc5\u4ecd\u5408\u9002\uff1b\u8ba4\u771f\u542c\u89c1\u4e00\u6b21\u65b0\u7684\u8fb9\u754c\uff0c\u6bd4\u63f4\u5f15\u8fc7\u53bb\u7684\u7b11\u58f0\u66f4\u80fd\u7ef4\u6301\u771f\u6b63\u7684\u4eb2\u8fd1\u3002<\/p>\n<h3>\u4e3b\u8981\u8d44\u6599<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/07268602.2014.875456\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Michael Haugh, \u201cJocular Mockery as Interactional Practice in Everyday Anglo-Australian Conversation\u201d<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1016\/j.pragma.2012.02.003\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Michael Haugh and Derek Bousfield, \u201cMock Impoliteness, Jocular Mockery and Jocular Abuse in Australian and British English\u201d<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a 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