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(2014), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/a0037323\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cMistakenly Seeking Solitude\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Sandstrom, G. M., &amp; Dunn, E. W. (2014), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/0146167214529799\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cSocial Interactions and Well-Being\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Kardas, M., Kumar, A., &amp; Epley, N. (2022), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/pspa0000281\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cOverly Shallow? Miscalibrated Expectations Create a Barrier to Deeper Conversation\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Epley, N., Kardas, M., Zhao, X., Atir, S., &amp; Schroeder, J. 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