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(1969), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/001872676902200407\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cLiking a Person as a Function of Doing Him a Favour\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Niiya, Y. (2016), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1080\/00224545.2015.1095706\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cDoes a Favor Request Increase Liking Toward the Requester?\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Niiya, Y., Ellsworth, P. C., &amp; Yamaguchi, S. (2006), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1037\/1528-3542.6.2.279\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cAmae in Japan and the United States: An Exploration of a \u2018Culturally Unique\u2019 Emotion\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Niiya, Y., &amp; Ellsworth, P. C. (2012), <a href=\"https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1177\/0022022110383426\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cAcceptability of Favor Requests in the United States and Japan\u201d<\/a>.<\/li>\n<li>Flynn, F. J., &amp; Lake, V. K. B. 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